Check out these relationship nuggets! According to a Harvard-trained psychologist, even the happiest couples duke it out sometimes. But fear not, the ones slinging these phrases tend to go the distance…
- “I appreciate your effort.” Happy couples toss gratitude grenades at each other for their efforts. Just make sure it’s not dripping with sarcasm, or you might end up in a war zone!
- “I like you.” The crème de la crème of couples not only love each other but actually enjoy hanging out together. Feel free to get specific about what you dig about your partner. Just remember, it’s not a wish list!
- “Help me better understand this.” We’re all molded by our upbringing, quirks, and beliefs, which makes us clash like Avengers. This phrase? It’s your superpower conflict-resolver!
- “I’m listening…” Disagreements are like taxes—unavoidable. But it’s crucial to slap on your listening ears and support each other through the storm.
- “I’m sorry.” When things go south, the healthy duo knows they’re both culprits in the crime scene. Cue the apology train! (Hint: If she’s listening, it’s time to say sorry. Trust me.)
- “I forgive you. Can you forgive me?” Forgiveness is the glue holding relationships together. Wonder how many times I’ve scribbled this on those mini cards accompanying flowers…
- “I am committed to you.” Reassurance galore! Let your partner know you’re not planning a solo escape and are ready to tackle life’s rollercoaster together.
- “Let’s have some fun!” When the tension’s thicker than grandma’s gravy, sprinkle some humor or playful teasing. Or better yet, hit the road for some fresh air or indulge in a mutual hobby.
- “I love you.” Shocking, right? But when you say it, mean it, and double-check you’re not addressing the dog.