As marriage dynamics evolve, so do the reasons for divorce. Gone are the days when the classic “irreconcilable differences” topped the list. Now, divorce lawyers are noticing a modern twist: text messages and social media use are becoming key culprits in relationships falling apart.

Can you imagine trying to explain to the kids that your parents split up over autocorrect mistakes or an untagged photo on Instagram? Sure, my wife would love a few more shoutouts on my social media, but divorcing over texts? How bad are everyone else’s typos?!

Maybe we should all take a deep breath before hitting send—your marriage might depend on it!